Everything we hate, resist or disown about ourselves takes
on a life of it’s own and it undermines our feelings of worthiness.
When we make peace with ourselves we instantaneously make
peace with the world.
We choose to forget who we are then we forget we have
forgotten.
Find compassion in your own mistakes then the mistakes of
others will not affect you.
We attract whomever or whatever we need to mirror back the aspects of
ourselves that we’ve forgotten.
Within ever desire is the mechanics of it’s fulfillments.
Our fears stop us.
We see in others what we like and what we don’t like in
ourselves.
We cannot see ourselves. I am your mirror and you are mine.
The Ego is our false and ignorantly assumed identity. So ego
then is the absence of true knowledge of who we really are, together with it’s
result : a doomed clutching on, at all costs, to cobbled together and makeshift
image of ourselves, an inevitably chameleon charlatan self that keeps changing
and to, to keep alive the fiction of it’s existence.
Transformation itself only takes seconds. It is a shift in
perception, a change in the lenses we look though.
When you come face to face with an aspect of yourself that you
hate, express it. Express it with the same intention of releasing all your judgments,
your shame , you pain and your resistance to taking back this disowned aspect
of yourself.
The pain of perceived flaws cause us to cover them up. When
we deny certain aspects of ourselves, we overcompensate by becoming their
opposite. We create entire personas to prove to ourselves and others that we
are not that.
We are dominated by everything from which our self becomes
identified, We dominate and control everything from which we DISidentify
ourselves.
You must be willing to spend time exploring your own inner
world. “If you do not go within you go without”
Pain is passed down from generation to generation and if
it’s not questioned will never break the cycle.
The pain you experienced when you were 3, 5, ,6 and so on is
just beneath the surface of your consciousness. Until it is transformed it is
always there driving your life.
Prejudice is passed down and so is
pain, guilt and shame.
Pain has it’s purpose, it wants to
guide and teach us about higher levels of awareness.
Every word, incident and person
that still has an emotional chared needs to be retraced, faced, replaced and
embraced. Then we face the incident, owning up to it’ss reality as part of your
past. We need to become fully aware of
the influence it ahs on our life. Then
we look at the incident from a different perspective which allows us to replace
our negative feelings with positive ones.
We take control of our lives by choosing our interpretations. That
enables us to embrace our disowned past and unplug ourselves from other people.
It’s our perceptions and our
interpretations that affect our emotions not the incident itself,. It’s our
perceptions and interpretations that deny responsibility and lay blame..
Each of us has to make a conscious
decisions to alter our world by altering our interpretations.
To overcome fear we must overcome
our fear and we FACE IT and REPLACE it with love.
We have to set aside our harsh
judgments and come to terms with the mistakes we’ve made. We must know that we worthy of forgiveness .
This divine gift teaches us that part of being human is making mistakes.
Forgiveness comes from the Heart
not the EGO. Forgiveness is a choice.
Desperation comes from the gulf
between God and Self.
If we don’t challenge our most
basic beliefs we won’t grow as spiritual beings. Our lives will simply run along lines
established by our parents and we will never go beyond those boundaries that
were set when we were kids.
Boldness has a genius, power and
magic to it.
When we realize that no one is
coming to save us or do it for us, and that our old wounds are there whether we
love them or hate them, we realize that we are the ones who have to fulfill our
potential.
I knew that to truly change my
life I would have to be uncomfortable.
Prayer without action is
dreaming.
If you tell yourself that you
are going to eat healthier foods and don’t do it you are broadcasting to
yourself AND the universe that you can’t be trusted. If you say to yourself your going to get a new
job next year and don’t do it your sending a message that you cant be counted
on . Even if it is a small task you are saying to yourself and to the
universe you don’t keep your word. These broken promises wear down our self
esteem. Each time you do what you say you are going to you are telling yourself and the universe you
can be trusted and counted on. Then you
can work on larger goals.
